Losing sucks—there’s no denying it. That sting of disappointment when things don’t go as planned is tough to shake. I’ve been there more times than I can count. But here’s the truth: losing doesn’t make you a loser, just like winning doesn’t automatically make you a champion. What really matters is what drives you to show up in the first place and how you respond when things don’t go your way.

For years, I let a fixed mindset hold me back. I let failure stick labels on me like “not good enough” or “incapable,” and I let fear of falling short stop me from trying again. But when I started embracing a growth mindset, everything changed. I began to see setbacks not as signs to give up but as opportunities to grow. Instead of asking, “Why me?” I started asking, “What can I learn from this?” That shift didn’t just build my resilience—it transformed the way I approached life.

At The Edge Girl, I want to empower you to see every setback as a setup for your next success. The pieces on our website aren’t just clothes—they’re reminders of your strength, courage, and ability to rise above. Whether you’re celebrating a win or dusting yourself off after a loss, remember this: you’re always growing, always evolving, and always worth it.

Let’s keep showing up, stronger and bolder every time.

Warmly,

Theresa Spann
Founder, The Edge Girl