I wanted to share a little reminder that’s been on my heart lately, inspired by the thought that we never truly know the struggles others are facing. It’s easy to see someone’s actions and wonder, “Why would they do that?” But life has shown me time and again that everyone carries a story we may never see.

Maybe that woman in line ahead of us seems a bit short-tempered. She could be dealing with a whole world of challenges—a son going through addiction, a partner with a memory lost to Alzheimer’s, or who knows what else. The point is, when people feel afraid or out of control, they might act in ways we don’t understand. And sometimes, the only thing they can do is cope in their own way.

Here at The Edge Girl, we’re all about strength and resilience—but also about empathy. Kindness is one of the most powerful statements we can make in our style, our actions, and our lives. A simple smile or moment of understanding can make all the difference to someone who might be silently fighting their own battle.

So next time we encounter someone whose actions seem a little hard to get, let’s take a step back. Maybe, just maybe, our kindness is exactly what they need.

With love and kindness,

Theresa Spann
Founder, The Edge Girl